Fiance and Fiancee

It's very interesting topic for every young boy and girl!! Some time we confused with this two word and interchange while we pronounce. Let me clarify first that. Fiance is a boy engaged to be married. The fiancee is a girl engaged to married. As we all know they're two ways (arrange or love) to engage with someone. As per my view both ways are proper if we select each other based on some analytical thinking. Now, you have a question that what I mean by analytic thinking? Based on my analytical thinking I will try to help you to select a perfect life partner. There are different check for in both ways (arrange or love) to get engaged.

Arrange Marriage


In arranging the marriage process both families are involved from starting, That is why I have kept a different check for the love and arrange marriage. Let's focus on the main topic!!

A.Tips for a Girl at a time of Engagement

• As a girl you need not to worry much about his friend circle, income and family environment because already your father/brother/mother have verified that.
• When you meet him (obviously before engagement!!) try to check his thinking, behavior, attitude and look.
• Most of times boy will ask you about what you want to do in future ??Please clarify what you really want to do. (study or job or whatever)
• I will advise you don't share personal problem with him in first meet, because you don't know how he is. Some times it may create issues for families.
• You can share your thought on family, study, job or hobby it will be a better option for discussion. First hears him than share your thought.

B.Tips for a Boy at a time of Engagement

First of all don't expect perfection or dream girl. (looks at you if you are perfect, then expecting!!) Generally there are trade of in below the point.

• Education
• Nature
• Look
• Attitude
• Thinking

Don't ask too many questions and give her chance to share her view. Ask about her view on family, study or hobby.

Love Marriage

As per my view first check that you both have love with each other not just attraction. Many times we consider attraction to each other as a love. Attraction can be due to knowledge, Money, Look or Attitude.

For example, If you have attracted to the flower you will pluck it up. But, if you love, then you will give water daily to plant.
First check that you both are true friend of each other. You can read my blog topic "Friend" to get more idea on true friend.
 
Few Tips:

• Check your life partner behavior with the waiter when you go for lunch/dinner in hotel.
• Invite your life partner in family events and look at his/her reaction with your family.
• Spend time with friends' circle of your life partner.
• Try to understand each other thoughts, feeling and like/dislike.
• Be ready for adjustment and compromise for your love. Because we all know before marriage all things are in theory, but after marriage, it is all about practicality.

All the best...